Learning Is a Choice. Leadership Is Too.
- Jul 27
- 3 min read
"We can choose to learn something every day—if we choose to. It is our choice."— DeAnna Busby-Rast
I say this often because I believe it wholeheartedly. After nearly three decades in Corporate America leading teams, driving sales, building relationships, developing talent, and now leading my own executive coaching and professional development business, one truth has remained constant:
The people who continue learning are the people who continue growing.
As I read books, listen to podcasts, and study leaders I admire, one characteristic consistently stands out: They have an insatiable desire to keep learning.
Titles change, industries evolve, and technology advances faster than ever.
But the willingness to keep learning is what separates those who continue moving forward from those who plateau.
Learning Isn't Limited to a Classroom
When most people think about learning, they think about books, degrees, certifications, or training courses.
Those are all important, but some of our greatest lessons come from places we never expected.
We learn through:
Difficult conversations
Feedback
Failure
Disappointment
Relationships
Success
Starting over
Reflection
Every experience has something to teach us—if we're willing to pay attention.
That's why I often ask audiences:
What do you know today that you didn't know six months ago?
The answer is proof that you're growing.
Growth doesn't always happen in life-changing moments.
Sometimes it happens one lesson...one conversation...one decision at a time.
Confidence Doesn't Come First! One of the biggest myths I hear is:
"I'll do it when I feel more confident."
The reality?
Confidence usually comes after action, not before it. I believe we become confident only after we choose to do the thing that scares us the most. Imposter syndrome is real. But it's also temporary.
Every new challenge feels uncomfortable.
Every new role feels unfamiliar.
Every presentation, every difficult conversation, and every leadership opportunity stretches us beyond what we already know.
The people who grow aren't the ones who never feel uncertain. They're the ones who keep moving anyway.
Mistakes Are Better Teachers Than Success
I've made plenty of mistakes throughout my career.
And honestly...I wouldn't trade them.
Mistakes force reflection.
They make us ask better questions.
What happened?
What did I learn?
What will I do differently next time?
What do I need to leave behind?
A mistake can become a label, or it can become a lesson. The choice belongs to us.
Leadership Begins Long Before the Promotion
One of my favorite messages to share is this:
Leadership begins before the title; a title may give someone authority, but behavior is what earns trust.
Leadership is demonstrated every day by how we:
Show up
Keep our commitments
Encourage others
Own our mistakes
Stay curious
Continue learning
Choose our attitude
These aren't executive skills.....they're human skills.
And every one of us has the opportunity to practice them every single day.
Self-Leadership Comes First
Before we can effectively lead others, we must first learn to lead ourselves.
That means asking ourselves difficult questions:
How do I respond when I'm frustrated?
Do my daily choices reflect the person I want to become?
Am I growing intentionally, or simply going through the motions?
The strongest leaders aren't perfect; they're intentional. They recognize that every decision shapes who they are becoming.
Learning Changes What You Know. Leadership Changes How You Show Up.
These two ideas are inseparable.
Learning gives us knowledge. What can I learn today?
Leadership turns knowledge into action. What will I do with what I've learned?
Both require a choice.
Final Thought
Your current circumstances do not determine your future potential.
Every lesson matters.
Every new skill matters.
Every difficult conversation matters.
Every time you choose growth over comfort, you're becoming the leader your future needs.
Leadership is available to every person who chooses to keep learning...and chooses to keep showing up.
So I'll leave you with one question: What will you choose to learn today?
Because today's lesson may become tomorrow's opportunity.
The conversation you have. The book you read. The podcast you listen to. The feedback you receive. The mistake you make. The question you ask. Every one of them has the potential to shape the leader you become.
Remember...
We can choose to learn something every day, if we choose to. It is our choice.
And every day, we also have a choice in how we show up, how we treat others, how we respond to challenges, and who we are becoming. The leader you become tomorrow is shaped by the choices you make today.
So...
What will you choose to learn today?

About the Author
DeAnna Busby-Rast is the founder of Authentica Group, where she helps organizations develop confident leaders through executive coaching, leadership training, keynote speaking, and strategic business consulting.
She believes leadership is built through intentional growth, courageous communication, and the daily choice to keep learning.





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